Thursday, October 6, 2011

Addison Joy is 18 Months

Happy 18 months to Addison Joy!


Addison surely is the joy of our lives, especially lately; I find us laughing constantly at our crazy little family. It has been a long time since I have done an update on Addison, so I thought 18 months would be a good time to do it! The bear will be a once a year thing from now on...expect for Manna!!!!!

18 Month Doctor Visit Summary:
  • Height: 33.5-33.75 inches; 91%
  • Weight: 25.5 lbs; 61%
  • Head: 91% (dont remember exact measurement)
  • Autism: I was pleased that my doctor conducts formal autism screening as early as possible--18 months. Although we had no concerns about autism, I am glad that it was medically backed up she does not demonstrate any autism red flags.
  • Diaper Rash: Addison happen to have a wicked diaper rash when we were already scheduled to go for her well baby visit. The doctor recommended a concoction of desitin, lamisil and neosporin; WOW within two diaper changes it was almost completely gone!!!
  • Shots: Three shots including a flu shot. Now everyone has gotten a flu shot now, so hopefully we won't bring the flu home to little Manna this flue season.
  • Overall: The doctor was pleased with her verbal ability, mobility, growth and ability to understand/interact. It was a GREAT doctor's visit!!

Other Updates:
  • General Disposition: As with any toddler, we have our tantrum moments, but overall Addison is still a generally easy going and happy kid.
  • Verbal: Blown away. That describes us every day when we listen to Addison talk. She can say any word you say, she repeats everything and REMEMBERS everything. I think the biggest change over the past month has been verb usage and sentences. Addison has started to learn verb tenses (-ing, -ed, etc.) and tries to use them. This also means that she builds more complex sentences "Piper is running", "Piper barked". She uses articles a lot too, so strange how they figure all this stuff out. I still love that she always says "I see the moon" every time its out! The moment her eyes open in the morning or from a nap she is talking and narrating everything going on.
  • General Learning: I could not be more proud of all the things Addison has been learning and refining. She can identify (out of order) all but a couple letters of the alphabet, she can identify 7 basic shapes (square, triangle, circle, star, heart, moon), can identify SOME colors, knows her name and age, her body parts and articles of clothing! We are working colors, left/right and counting a lot now.
  • Time Concept: Only recently, Addison has been trying to figure out yesterday, today, tomorrow, later, now, etc. Occasionally, she remembers (and understands) what we did yesterday or that I said we would do something later when it is actually later. Its neat.
  • Independence: Addison seems to need the boundaries that her independent play time offers. We generally have 25-40 minutes of play pen time daily (length depends on what else we have going on that day) and 20 minutes of blanket time every other day. Blanket time is still a work in progress; we are up to about 95% compliance.
  • School: LOVES SCHOOL! She cannot get away from me fast enough when I drop her off. She talks about Mrs. Sandy and what she did that day the whole way home. Naming off all her classmates is a favorite as well. I am pleased with how school has already seemed to help her with socialization and separation anxiety. The consistency of school 2 days a week will be key to her adjustment to Manna's arrival.
  • Mealtime: For those of you who know me or read my blog, I have never loved mealtimes. I love cooking, but I do not enjoy the inevitable discipline opportunities or the also inevitable battle of wills. I am learning that variety is key these days. Addison is a great eater and even better when she has several different things to eat. She is showing preferences with her foods, but she FINALLY understands that she is expected to try a little of everything she is served and there is no alternative meal if she does not like something. However, if we serve her a radically new food I do not expect be in love at first bite. I expect her to try it and if after trying she does not like it---THEN I will give an alternative because its new! She LOVES to try anything we eat, even though its always the same thing she is eating!!!
Her Favorites:
  • Color: Green and Purple
  • Food: Bananas, Grapes, Cheese, Broccoli, Noodles of any kind, cupcakes, crackers
  • Words/Phrases: "I see the moon", "Hi , "Tickle please", "Read the book", "Night night" (lays down then quickly pops up) Wake up", "Daddy at work"
  • Activities: Coloring, finger painting, puzzles, playing with Piper, playing with her friend Elle (a year older than her) hinny time (when she runs around her room naked after her evening bath), giving hugs and kisses to things---even things that are not alive (a chair, a tree, lol)
  • Toy: Babies
  • Place to Go: Chick-Fil-A or the playground
My how we are blessed with a delightful little girl. I look forward to seeing her as a big sister very soon. Children sure can bring you frustration, but...the joys, smiles and laughter erase those before you even have time to let it get you down. This age is magical to me.

Kissing the measurement bear...she has not seen him in a while!
October 2011
Hugging the bear...sweet girl
October 2011

Trying to hug Piper; Piper is such a good sport these days
October 2011
Addison Said: "Nose Piper. Touch Piper Nose" as we took this picture
October 2011

Carousel at the National Mall where we watched Matthew play a pick up game of ultimate.
September 2011

Cheesing it up on webcam for Mia and Piper as we did a fashion show of all her consignment clothes we bought for the winter.
September 2011

She loves cupcakes
August 2011

First time finger painting
August 2011

SMOOTHIE TIME!!! She grins with delight every time she hears the bullet making her and Matthew a smoothie (its plain all natural yogurt blended with fruit with a dash of vanilla, nutritious and delicious)
August 2011

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

36 weeks, 3 days

Less than FOUR weeks until d-day!

36 weeks 3 days with Manna

36 weeks with our "blessing" Addison

Little Info On Manna: Your baby is gaining about an ounce a day. She now weighs almost 6 pounds (like a crenshaw melon) and is more than 18 1/2 inches long. Next week, your baby will be considered full-term. Most likely she's in a head-down position (Manna is as of right now and all the kicks/movements support this as well---lets up he/she stays).

How am I feeling: Considering we are so close to the end, I feel great. Sure I have a few aches and pains here and there, but I am grateful that pregnancy has been very uneventful. I am anxious to meet Lil Manna, know if its a boy or girl, swaddle it, snuggle it, give it a name and watch my Addison be a big sister.

Doctor Appointment Summary:
  • BP: 105/60
  • Heartbeat: 138
  • Measurement: Still on track
  • Overall: Saw one of the doctors this time. She said they will not check my progress until 39 or 40 weeks again--YAY! She said everything looks good and really just reviewed how we were feeling about delivery---our birth plan has not change yet. She also said, if we go into labor they wont stop it (although I hope we make it all the way to the due date).


This is when Addison says "NECK" and wants to tickle your neck then you return the "favor" to her :)

First Day of School

Addison started preschool a few weeks ago and I also worked the first two weeks of school. It is a co-op so mom's work as a teacher's assistant every 6 weeks. I worked for two weeks to make up for missed time after we have Manna; the school was/is so wonderful about working with us. We can pay a sub to work for us, but I LOVE hanging out with kids (I do not work in Addison's class).

A few people criticized us or furrowed their brow upon hearing that we were starting her in school "already", but our goal with school is to socialize Addison. She tends to be a little shy, so we felt like she needed structured time to be around other kids her age. Also, after working in the older 2's and young 3's class---I am VERY glad we started school at this age. Some of those children had a lot of trouble coping without mommy and their distress lasts much longer than a 1.5 year old.

Addison attends school Tuesdays and Thursdays 10am - 2pm and has been doing fantastic. Her teacher, Miss Sandy, is also from Mississippi. Although Addison does not nap during their rest time, she lays quietly on a mat on the floor. She is exhausted when we get home and goes straight for a 3-3.5 hour nap!!! On the way home from school she just talks and talks about her day. The teacher said she is a joy; glad we gave her a middle name of JOY :)

I LOVE getting little art projects sent home too :)

Addison's classroom during Open House the day before school started; she jumped right in.

Addison's classroom during Open House the day before school started.

Although they spelled her name wrong, this is where her art work hangs everyday :)

Making her lunch the night before--do not ask why I was so excited about making her lunch.

Off to school.

Walking in to the first day of school.

Daddy was able to come too!!

Dropping her off.

Little hesitation, but no tears :)






Monday, September 19, 2011

35 Weeks, 4 Days

Quick Update without profile shots on Manna.

We had an ultrasound on Friday 9/16 since I have a history of macrosomia (giant babies). The day did not start off right as they changed the appointment time three times on me and made it where Matthew could not attend. I do not ask him to come to appointments, but ultrasounds are fun for the dad---they get to experience the baby whereas us mom's experience it every moment!!

Summary of results: Anticipating average sized baby (vs. giant Addison).

What was funny was the abdomen size was the one measurement pulling down the entire current size percentile; the head was 2 weeks ahead and the femur length was right on track. I TRIED to take it with a grain of salt since they predicted high 7 pounds with Addison and she was born 9.5 lbs but I was a little stressed when they said "average"!!! All these concerns flooded my head ranging from---"is this my fault" to "I dont know how to handle little babies". Then, I was reminded the baby is healthy AND these results mean we do not have to be induced before the due date!! THAT was the best news. So as of now, I am allowed to go 7 days overdue; we hope this will allow me to go on my own as well as allow Manna to get some chunk on :)

We did not get to bring any pictures home since Manna moved SO much during the u/s. The tech had trouble getting any shots that were good enough for measuring. Addison said "watch manna" and "Mommy is lie down" the entire time. LOL!!!

Summary of Doc Visit:
  • BP: 120/60 Although this is normal; its high for my history. The doctors always laugh at me when I say that is high LOL.
  • Heat beat: 140's...interesting as its been in the 130's until now. Hmmm....
  • Tests: Had Strep B test.
  • Overall: All seems/sounded well; Head down and "almost engaged"---that would explain the couple of contractions over the weekend and some of the slight pain. As we all know, head down status could still change.
  • Progress: 1.5 cm dilated; 50% effaced. Apparently this is right on track for second babies at week 36, so we are a tiny bit ahead. Interestingly, this is where we were at with Addison at 37 weeks and then nothing changed after that :)

Monday, September 12, 2011

34 Weeks, 4 Days

Holy smokes, it's week 34!!! I have said it many times but I will say it again: feels like we are flying through this pregnancy!


34 Weeks, 4 days with Manna

34 Weeks with our Blessing Addison

Lil info about Manna: According to Babycenter.com Manna now weighs about 4 3/4 pounds (like your average cantaloupe) and is almost 18 inches long.

Doctor Appointment Summary:
  • BP: 110/68 High for me but normal for most :)
  • Heartbeat: 130's
  • Weight: NO WEIGHT GAIN, Woot Woot! I saw a doctor today and she said as long as I do not lose any weight it's ok :)
  • Measurement: Right on track unlike Addison who always measured about 1-2 weeks behind
  • Overall: I saw one of the doctors this time and she expressed her concerns IF we have a baby any bigger than Addison. I think they maybe be putting the cart before the horse but we have some more time to see if that is true. They want to get an idea of how big they THINK Manna will be, even though as we recall from our first pregnancy they were and can be WAY off in weight estimates. Last time, they guessed Addison would be about 7 lbs maybe 8 and she was 9.5 lbs!! However, I dont argue with the docs, I follow directions and so we are scheduled for an ultrasound Friday. From that, they will decide if I need additional ones to keep an eye on the size. We are not worried, we want a biggin :)
  • Coming up: Weekly visits start now and on my next visit we get the lovely strep b test.
How Am I Feeling: Pretty great. It rained ALL week, so I was not able to walk everday so instead I started my Jillian Michael's 30 day shred. I substitute stair climbs for all the ab exercises, but MAN I AM SORE!! My back is sore pretty consistently, but nothing too terrible. I love each and every movement to remind me that lil Manna is doing well...even when the punches and kicks are uncomfortable. I am working in Addison's school for the next two weeks and its my church's consignment sale soon (I am on the leadership team for the sale) so I have a feeling I will be worn out by October. I would not have it any other way! We are SO blessed.


34 weeks 2 days, just a random one.

Addison saying "Kiss Manna Please" and giving Manna a lil sweet kiss

Addison after saying "hug, Manna, hug"