Monday, December 4, 2017

Happy {Ninjago} 6th Birthday to Caleb

Happy {Ninjago} 6th Birthday to Caleb Asher!

 Despite a last minute location change, we had a grand time celebrating ninja style.  The party was originally planned to take place at a nearby park, this was Caleb's one request aside from ninja theme.  The weather did no cooperate but thankfully the HOA president helped us rent the neighborhood clubhouse at the last minute; it all worked out well!

During the party we made throwing stars, hunted for hidden ninjas, had a sword fight, practiced target practice with a balloon dart game and ate some yummy food.  It was a fun filled party!  Check out the pictures below and my annual letter :)






Happy Birthday Caleb.


Party Table


Favor bags and foam swords.  The swords were a HUGE hit; I am so glad we found them.



A friend made the cake this time.


Its amazing how a 5 minute project or wrapping the water bottles adds so much to the party.


Spinjitzu Sticks


Throwing Star Making Station.  We tried to use ninja words for everything :)  Matthew had pre-folded everything for the kids, but it still proved to be a pretty hard task--Sorry kids!

Sweet Nigiri; it was supposed to be the style suhi with the fish on the outside


Close up of sweet nigiri

The ninjas were watching......
 
Instead of a pinata, we filled balloons with fun prizes and kids threw a dart at it...the dart throwing wen along well with the ninja theme too


Seeing the party set up!



Seeing the party set up!
 
Birthday Boy!


Birthday Boy!


Ninja Caleb ready to go!


My three oldest Ninjas!


Making throwing stars.


Sword fight after the kids found all the ninjas hidden all over the club house.


Time to eat!


Time to eat!


Time to eat!



Time to eat!

The two littlest guests.

Caleb adores this little girl.


Time for Cake!



Took a few blows to get them out :)



Alexis, Reagan, Addison, Madison!



All the party guests!


Caleb,

My how you have matured and grown up this year my darling Caleb.  This year you started Kindergarten...this means you are away from home for the first time all day everyday.  Please know how it hurt my heart to see you sad to leave a few times this school year.  I know it may seem like I WANT you gone because I must urge your tearful departure without any emotions of my own, but this is far from the truth.  My heart aches during difficult "see you laters".  I want nothing more than to solve the problem at hand for you, but alas I cannot for if I do, I will not be encouraging your independence.  However, we have come out the other side victorious and your contagious smile waves goodbye each morning.

You are thriving in school, Caleb.  Not only are you excelling academically (third grade reading level WOOT!!!), you are a leader in your class and eager to serve others.  I had lunch with you on your birthday and I loved watching you greet every teacher AND student by name as they walked past us.  Each teacher and student lit up upon your greeting.  Caleb, your servants heart and love for life is electric....contagious...beautiful.

Recently you lost your first tooth and I think that childhood rite of passage always reminds me you are growing up so quickly.  I like to tease you and pretend to cry every time we meet these milestones bellowing "you are all gown up"....when I do you always look up at me with your big brown eyes and say "mommy, I love you.  Don't worry I will take care of you when you are old."  You know what, Caleb?  I believe it.

You are the glue among the siblings.  Sure, you all aggravate each other but I watch you bring the girls together.  I watch you try to include everyone...even Lincoln who is really too young to know he is left out yet.  You consistently seek to make choices that make others happy while, sometimes, sacrificing your own desire.  You care so deeply for this family; Daddy and I always say you would give away your last cookie :)  You are so much like your Daddy in this way.  You both have a beautiful self sacrificing servant's heart, this is what makes your Daddy an exceptional father, husband, brother, son and friend, although some people take it for granted.  You will be all these things too.  I pray that you find friends who see and appreciate this quality in you.  I pray our family always encourage this in you.  I pray those around you know it is a privilege to know you because of these qualities.  Hear me...it is a privilege to know you.  Listen.

I adore you passion for Jesus, his word and sharing his love.  You are amazing and so filled with a wisdom I am certain I did not possess until I was twice your age.

I am not perfect Caleb.  I never will be.  I am thankful you have a heavenly father who loves you perfectly and loves you even bigger than I do.  You grant me abundant forgiveness every time I fail you, thank you.  I love you more than I can articulate here or ever say to you.  I hope when you read these words over the years you can hear and feel how important you are to me (and daddy), how loved you are, how admired you are and how we see so much beauty in you.

I have used one word to describe you since the day you born, BIG.  You do everything big.  Still.  Love Big.  Cry Big.  Serve Big.  Upset Big.  Noisey Big.  Do life Big.  So...I will conclude as I usually do....

All my BIG love,
Mommy




Sunday, November 5, 2017

Halloween 2017


 Halloween 2017

Halloween is always fun because it is also Caleb's birthday just a few days before.  Caleb's birthday theme is usually also his Halloween theme, this year...Ninjago!

Alice, Ninjago, Minnie-Rella, Clifford (this is the third grant to wear the same Clifford costume)

Caleb as Jay from Ninjago


Lincoln as Clifford

The weekend before Halloween we went to our Church's Fall Festival.  They had inflatables, hay rides, petting zoo, smores and tons of games!

Petting a Goat

Petting Bunnies

On a hayride with some of our favorite people to do life with



After the cookie walk


 
Allie 10 months, Lincoln 9 months

Alexis and Addison doing the bean bag toss

Blythe all girly for Halloween

Monday, June 26, 2017

Family Pictures 2017

To celebrate Lincoln graduating from his cranial band AND turning one AND joining our family....we decided to have some family photos done.  My friend Rachel did a great job and was so patient with our scheduling.  Between weather and sickness it took three sessions to get these done, so yeah...she was patient.

These pictures really capture our family.  In their entirety you will not see precise hair, cooperative children, ideally coordinating outfits, quintessential smiles, or perfectly posed shots....but what you will see is who they are, both the perfect and imperfect.  I love photos like this.  They capture life, which is far from perfect.  When we look back on these photos we will remember their personalities so accurately. 

Addison 7, Caleb 5, Lincoln 1, Blythe 3

Addison 7, Caleb 5, Lincoln 1, Blythe 3  This is a pretty accurate interpretation of our children





The Grant Gang 2017, Capturing where we live at the moment, Suwanee, GA (we seem to be nomads)



Caleb 5, Blythe 3, Lincoln 1, Addison 7; Yeah thats about right at one person being silly in the photo

Caleb 5, Blythe 3, Lincoln 1, Addison 7

The Grant Gang 2017

THIS is US

The older sibs
Someone is escaping!
Someone is escaping!

Yeah it is all smiles and giggles for Blythe until.......
The ACTUAL baby joins the photo :)


Addison 7; She is full of knowledge and wisdom beyond her years.  She is nurturing, kind, gifted, loving, patient and a rule follower.  She will succeed in anything she sets out to do.  Addison makes parenting easy and teaches me more than I could ever teach her.


Caleb 5; This photogenic boy loves people BIG, I mean BIG.  He crazy loves his family and has already demonstrated he would do anything to protect them.  His self sacrificing personality (or as we call it his "give you his last cookie" personality) is inspiring.  You will never in your life EVER meet someone so loving...EVER.  He will make an amazing husband and father one day, much like his Daddy.  Watch out ladies, he is a keeper.

I am sorry....but does he TAKE bad photos?

Blythe 3 years, Oh this girl---this look sums her up perfectly.  Blythe is electric, she can brighten the gloomiest day.  She can cheer up the most sorrowful.  She marches by the beat of a different drum.  As young as 18 months old, people would follow her.  She is a leader.  She is strong.  She is brave.  She is Blythe. ROOOOARRRR :)
Blythe 3, Cheesing it up :)

Blythe 3, Looking like her Daddy here

I warn you...here begin the Lincoln photos and there are a lot.  We did not publish photos of him while he was in his band so I went a little crazy here because....well...I love him and THAT ZANY HAIR!!
 
Lincoln 1; This is the perfect picture because his hair is show cased and this has been his favorite face since he was about 9 months.  Lincoln has been such a chill baby after the move settled down.  He does not like to be alone...but why would he...he never has to be!  He makes us laugh with all his funny talking and faces.  He has a contagious cackle.  Lincoln has a gentleness about him that I cannot accurately describe in such a little one, but its quite remarkable.  I am excited to see his personality change and evolve.










Lincoln 1, Caleb 5.  My loving boys.

Blythe 3, Addison 7.  My sassy girls.


These children may never completely understand what a wonder father they have. He is a beautiful combination of of the children's personality; he gave Addison genuine kindness; he gave Caleb a self-sacrificing nature; he gave Blythe her electricity--you just WANT to be around Matthew (those who know him know what I am talking about); he gave Lincoln gentleness.  Go back and read how I described them above.  These photos---This is him.  This is Matthew.





We gave up trying to be serious...and it was way more fun!




Life IS crazy.  Life IS exhausting.  Life IS overwhelming most days.
BUT
Life IS filled with laughter.  Life IS filled with love.  Life IS filled with forgiveness.  

Life IS filled FULL with these people.  These people I love and that love me...despite me :)