Monday, April 8, 2013

Happy 3rd Birthday, Addison Joy!

Happy Third Birthday to my precious little girl!



Stats:  I will post those after she and Caleb have their joint well checks in a few weeks.

Words to Describe Addison Lately:
  • Caring
  • Sassy
  • Talkative
  • Thoughtful
  • Funny
  • Rule Following
  • Tender Hearted
  • Perfectionist 
  • Intelligent
  • Giving

Pictures are below from throughout the year--I will do a separate post for videos I hope later.

Humor:  Addison has quite the adept sense of humor.  She cracks jokes that I have no idea how she knew they would be funny.  She loves to make me laugh; when she thinks I am down she knows exactly what to say to make me smile.

Learning:  Addison is anxious to read; I often hear "Mommy when can I know how to read".  I am trying to teach her as often as I can but the reality of mothering two this close together and yet very different personalities is quite challenging.  I need to clean less and teach more.  I have little patience so teaching a toddler (well two) is hard for me...especially when I am also disciplining and running the household too.  I know my weaknesses!

Potty:  She has been potty trained since September with few issues since the three day potty training weekend.  We have not even thought about night time training; we are not ready for her to be up at night/early morning needing to go potty....yet.

School:  She still attends Mother's Day Out two days a week and loves it.  Next year she has to change schools so she can be in a preschool setting--just a little more focused on school readiness and to hopefully challenge her.  

Bed:  She has been in her toddler bed for about a month now.  I am glad we waited so long.  It was the right choice.  She only got out once and all she did was stand by the bed and jump back in.  I caught her and she was devastated she disobeyed.

Eating:  Addison is a generally good eater.  She does not like monotony though, which is hard because I love leftover night!  She is always a good sport about trying new things and eating things even when it is no her favorite.  She often talks to much and we have to remind her it is time to eat...not talk.  I admit that a lot of the success here is personality; her younger brother is quite different.

Sibling Time:  Caleb and Addison play pretty well together and she wants Caleb to go everywhere with her. She loves Caleb but that means she loves to aggravate him too.  I find that they play best together when I am not actively playing with them or watching over them.  So far, they are very close.  yay!

Separation Anxiety:  Addison has made great strides in this area over the last year, specifically the last six months.  I have a little part time job to get me out of the house and this has "forced" her to rely on someone else on a CONSISTENT basis.  I think this has made the biggest difference.  She does not cry and have a melt down when i drop her off in childcare settings MOST of the time now.  I am so thankful because Caleb cries every time almost the whole time.  It does not matter how many child care settings they are exposed to and how early I think my kids will just always be a lil clingy and stranger anxiety ridden.  Maybe it is because I stay at home?

My Little Love:  I wish you knew the depth of my love for you.  I wish you knew how hard it is to discipline you because all I want is to see you smile.  However, I have to discipline you.  I am your mommy not your friend.  I admire your resiliency; you bounce back from disappointment quickly.  I love your determination to read.  Your tender heart makes me strive to be more patience and tender myself. I hope that you can extend me grace when I am not the best mother; I fail too my love.

I will never forget hearing your Daddy proclaim that you were a girl on April 1, 2010 at 9:16 pm.  I was in love with you from that moment and I will always love you.  Always.  Never doubt that.  Never.  I am so thankful you are my first born--you are, and always have been, so patience and forgiving with me.  You are my little guinea pig.  Your Daddy and I are so proud of you; you are so smart and such a loving big sister.  Today I was vacuuming and Caleb fell into the wall for no reason and you ran over to him, helped him up and comforted him.  He stopped crying because you took care of him; "that's goodness.  The fruit of the spirit is goodness".  I thank God for the sweet and wonderful little girl you have become.  You are truly our BLESSING, you always have been and always will be.  My dearest, please hear me when I tell you that you are a JOY, a BLESSING and we love you more everyday.  Nothing will ever change how we feel.  Nothing.

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Sunday, March 31, 2013

Our Easter 2013

Easter sneaked up on me this year!!!  With snowfall just a few days ago, spring break, Addison's birthday and an early Easter, it was here before I knew it.  As such it was a bit of low key Easter.  I am thankful, yet again, for friends.  We do not have family close by so our friends are like our family and this Easter celebrations was filled with time with friends!



We started off spring break by heading to the Omaha Children's museum .  Since Caleb has only been walking a lot for a month and half I have not had many chances to go places alone with my two walkers so I was thankful to have two friends AND a set of grandparents (not our family, but close) to help me keep track.




TIRED TIRED kids after the museum...this is Caleb's first "video time"

Early this week, Addison decorated a box for the Easter bunny to leave her a few goodies and decorated her own Easter egg (egg dying is too messy with a grabby pre-toddler around, aka Caleb).




We saw the Easter bunny on Friday at lunch and had a sweet picnic with our friends The Risers.


 SHE WENT RUNNING up to the bunny!









Saturday Addison attended a birthday party for a classmate, Grayson, who is coming to her party Saturday! They had a big party complete with a bouncy house and a professional face painter!



Sunday we celebrated Resurrection Sunday with our church family followed by chicken cannelloni for lunch and a dinner with some church friends.






We do not have extra hands for a full family pic :)



Easter Lunch and Green bean casserole in the background for the dinner later that night with friends.
 Eating PEEPs, first one--they were excited!

  Eating PEEPs, first one--they were excited!


To top it off, tonight I said good night to my two year old and will say good morning to my big three year old.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

The Easter Story as Told By My Addison

I love my smart little talkative girl.  The other night she informs me it is almost Easter. To which I respond "well yes, that is right Addison--do you know the story of Easter?"  Assuming she would merely respond with some mixture of several bible stories I was ready-ing myself to tell the story.  And this is what I hear back, almost verbatim.....

"Mommy (as if she was saying "duh, why dont you know this).  It is when Jesus died on that cross.  And the soldiers were mean.  Then they put Jesus in a TUBE (HAHA, I love when they mess words up and say them with confidence).  The angel said "come out".  And that angel knocked over the solider.  Jesus came out and now....now....(losing track of the story)...now...well Jesus came out of the tube and now He is in my heart of course."

Of course He is in your heart my little love.  I love you.  May we all have this sweet child like faith.  Thank you, Addison, for reminding me how special Jesus is during this season!!!!

Friday, March 22, 2013

Confessions of a Stay at Home Mom: A Peculiar Dream

I have a dream. Some people think it is strange, some may even think it is looney but it is still my dream.  I would be honored to be a surrogate for someone.  A surrogate for one special, loving and godly family.  Why?  Why oh why would I dream such a dream?
First, I find great joy in pregnancy.  Sure there are parts of it that are less enjoyable than others, but that's everything in life right?  I love the entire adventure despite the tiredness, aches, pains, weight gain, etc.  The kicks, flutters and knowing I am carrying a life outweighs all the rest so quickly.  Pregnancy is so unique; nine short months and you know that it will end.  Pregnancy always ends, that we know.  How can you not love it knowing that?  Admittedly I think I have had relatively easy pregnancies---I guess.
Also, I think my body must like being pregnant.  Both pregnancies resulted in inductions and even that barely coaxed them out :)  And I can hold a big ole baby in there--mine were both almost ten pounds.
I even found enjoyment in the long labors with both my children.  This is another thing we know will end.  You wont be in labor forever, although it feels like that sometimes!
And most importantly, I have experienced becoming a mommy and it is by far the most wonderful calling of my life.  Challenging, especially since I stay at home and live it 24/7, but wonderful.  As I said before, with anything good there will always be moments of not AS good.  I would consider it a privilege to help someone else in their journey to become a mommy.  And I am pro adoption too---this is just another alternative (side note, that's another dream--adoption).  What an honor if I could be part of growing someone's family.  Wow.
When I share this dream with others I am often asked some like "how can you carry that baby and not 'want' it?" I do not have a crystal ball but I think God equips us and that baby is no way genetically mine. I view it as I am babysitting for 9 months. This special family would be as much a part of it as me!!! It's theirs. Not mine. They are trusting me to care for their baby for those nine sweet months. Perhaps I over simplify.
This maybe one of those things that always stays a dream and that is fine. Yummy In The Tummy Dreams are sometimes intended to be just that, a dream not a reality.  But I cannot help but wonder if one day this dream COULD come true.  Maybe.  Maybe.  Call me crazy.  I call me a dreamer.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Addisons Royal Ball Party Preview

Addison's royal ball themed party is on April 6 and we are in full swing prepping! I won't reveal much but here is a sneak peek.


Making tutus and wands as favors. The blue accordion you see will be clocks set for nearly midnight!


Wands and tutus in progress



Pile of tutus ready from some toddler princesses!

We have made good progress while my mom has been here visiting. We are almost done until I get the RSVPs.

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